I would happily write about Tyler as a lover and his ability to make you feel at ease and safe in his company but i’d just be repeating what has already been said. Instead, I wanted to speak to how amazing Tyler is at doing this for somebody with significant multiple disabilities. I only have 4% vision. To become capable and independent for me requires serious training. I was embarrassed to the point of shame that I had no experience to do with dating or sex with the exception of one incident that didn’t involve my consent. I thought I was engaging Tyler to rewrite my story and explore my sexual identity on my terms. That was a huge part of the beginning of our time together. From our very first communication Tyler worked to ensure things were accessible for me, like sending voice memos so I wouldn’t have to communicate by text. when I’m with him, he keeps in some form of physical contact with me because it helps me to read his body language and I find it comforting. I’m so excited to be able to learn how to explore both sex and also how to approach dating. He is a very patient and such a quick study. when we have been out together without my guide dog, he learnt how to give sighted guide very quickly. He also adapted to giving audio description of the places we went to. I can think of nobody else i'd want helping me as I open up my world.

Working with Tyler has shown me how little I understand myself - and this is what growth looks like. My old ¨script¨ was that sexual trauma and anorexia made me disconnected from my body, and social anxiety made me disconnected from people. I hated how limited my life had become, but I was nothing without that identity. I eventually worked up the courage to book an escort, as I knew life wouldn't change unless I faced my fears head-on. I had worked with other escorts before seeing Tyler, but even within the niche of straight male providers, his offering is unique. His holistic perspective stood out to me, as did his thoughtful replies to my (barrage of) questions. In person, he exudes calm and has the wisdom of someone who has started from scratch and transformed themself, multiple times. I see Tyler as a facilitator: he creates the safety and space for me to be whatever I want. He has the ability to keep me in the moment, despite my scatterbrain's best attempts. I don't have specific goals in working with him, apart from learning as much as I can about myself - but the point is that I now know how much there IS to learn, as I'm less limited by my old ¨script¨. Of course, it's daunting, and my awkwardness truly knows no bounds, but it's also an adventure. To me, the contradiction in working with a ¨sex worker¨ like Tyler is that it's as much about everything else as it is about sex. That's the only way I can put it, as it's essentially about human connection. It's also about self-knowledge, self-compassion, and rewriting your old script while feeling supported at every step. Thank you, Tyler.

Such a beautiful year of connection ✨ Tyler offers a rare combination of emotional intelligence, grounded presence, and embodied confidence. Time with him doesn’t feel like a performance. It feels responsive, considered, and genuinely attuned to you, your needs, and your desires. Physically, he is deeply capable and versatile. Whether the energy is playful, sensual, tender, or boldly erotic, he meets it with ease and clarity. There is a natural confidence in the way he inhabits his body that allows the physical connection to unfold in a way that feels safe, alive, and fully received. For women who value depth, presence, and genuine human connection, and who want more than surface-level intimacy, time with Tyler Mathews is quietly exceptional. xx Katherine