GLOSSARY TERMS
Welcome to the comprehensive glossary page, where we provide informative descriptions of terms commonly used within the escort industry to describe various services and activities. This collection is designed to offer clarity and understanding, presenting a broad spectrum of services offered by escorts advertising on this platform. From BDSM dynamics to unique fetish interests, each entry is crafted to be informative, educational, and professional, serving as a valuable resource for individuals seeking to better comprehend the diverse landscape of adult services and preferences. Whether you are exploring or seeking information, our glossary aims to provide a nuanced understanding of the terminology employed within this industry, emphasising communication, consent, and mutual respect in the realm of adult experiences.
A
Anal Beads
Spherical objects linked together for gradual insertion into the anus, providing varied sensations during intimate play.
Anal Pegging
A consensual practice where one partner is anally penetrated by the other using a strap-on or dildo, exploring power dynamics.
Ass Worship
Erotic admiration and affection expressed towards a partner’s buttocks through various physical and verbal acts.
Anal Sex
Penetration of the penis inside the anus, also referred to as greek.
Anal Play
Refers to any kind of external play or penetration of the anus, either by use of finger, tongue, sex toys, or penis.
B
Ball busting
A BDSM activity involving consensual genital impact, often kicks or slaps to the testicles, for fetishised dominance and submission.
Balloon Fetish
A unique fetish involving sexual arousal or satisfaction derived from balloons.
BBW
Big Beautiful Woman.
BF
Boyfriend.
BFE
Boyfriend Experience.
BGB
Boy-girl-boy, as a threesome with two guys and one girl.
BJ
Blow job (oral sex on a man).
Blindfold
A sensory enhancement tool used during intimate moments by limiting sight, promoting heightened arousal and anticipation.
BLS
Ball licking and sucking.
Body Slide
An erotic massage technique involving sensual gliding of one’s body over a partner’s for heightened sensations.
Body Worship
Expressing admiration and affection for a partner’s body through various physical and verbal acts.
Boot Worship
A fetish involving erotic admiration and attention directed toward a partner’s boots, exploring consensual power dynamics.
Boyfriend Experience (BFE)
The Boyfriend Experience, or BFE, mirrors the Girlfriend Experience but from the perspective of a male provider. It involves offering companionship, emotional connection, and a sense of intimacy akin to a romantic relationship.
Butt Plug
A sex toy designed for anal insertion to enhance pleasure, often featuring a tapered shape and a flared base for safety.
BBBJ
Bareback blow job. Unprotected oral sex.
C
Caning
A form of impact play where a partner is consensually struck with a cane, exploring sensations and power dynamics in BDSM.
CBJ
See “Covered Blow Job”.
CG
Cowgirl on top.
CIMWS
Cum in mouth with swallow. To ejaculate in the mouth and the reciever swallowing.
COB
Cum on body. To ejaculate on a person’s body.
Cock and ball torture (CBT)
Consensual activities focused on the genital region for exploring a range of sensations without causing harm.
Cock Ring
A sex toy worn around the base of the penis or both the penis and testicles to enhance sexual pleasure by restricting blood flow.
COF
Cum on face. To ejaculate on a person’s face
Corporal punishment
Consensual BDSM activity involving physical discipline, often using implements like paddles or whips.
Corsets
Garments worn to shape and support the torso, often associated with BDSM and fetish aesthetics for their erotic appeal.
Costumes
In a sexual context, dressing up for roleplay, adding a layer of fantasy and excitement to intimate experiences.
Covered Blow Job
Oral sex with the use of a condom.
Cross Dressing
Wearing clothing typically associated with a different gender, exploring personal expression.
Cuddling
Non-sexual intimate physical affection, promoting emotional connection.
Cum in Mouth (CIM)
Ejaculating into a partner’s mouth during sexual activities.
D
Deep French Kissing (DFK)
Passionate, deep-mouthed kissing fostering intimate connection and heightened arousal between partners.
Deep Throat
The act of taking a partner’s genitals deeply into the mouth and throat during oral sex.
Degradation
Consensual BDSM activity involving verbal or psychological humiliation within established limits and boundaries.
Dildo
A sex toy designed for penetration, often shaped like genitalia, used for solo or partnered sexual activities.
Dining at the Y (DATY)
Performing oral sex on a partner’s genitals, typically refering to oral sex on a female.
Dirty Talk
The use of explicit and erotic language during sexual activities to enhance arousal.
Discipline
In a BDSM context, consensual activities focused on behaviour correction, often using rules and punishments within established boundaries.
DIY
Do it yourself (Masturbation).
Doggy
A sexual position where one partner is on hands and knees, and the other penetrates from behind.
Dominant (DOM)
An individual who takes a leading or controlling role in consensual BDSM activities.
Dominatrix
A person who takes on a dominant role in BDSM activities.
Double Penetration (DP)
Simultaneous penetration of two orifices, typically vagina and anus.
Doubles
Doubles involve two providers offering their services together to a single client. This experience provides a unique and collaborative encounter, often catering to those seeking diverse and simultaneous interactions.
Doubles
A threesome with a selected partner.
E
Electro Play
The use of electrical stimulation for sexual pleasure.
Exhibitionism
Deriving sexual pleasure from being observed or exposing one’s body in public.
F
Facesitting
Sitting on a partner’s face for oral-genital stimulation.
Facial
Ejaculating on a persons face.
FBSM
Full body sensual massage.
Femdom
Short for female dominance, involving consensual power dynamics where the female takes on a dominant role in BDSM activities.
Financial Domination
Consensual power dynamics where one partner exerts control over the other’s finances.
Findom
See “Financial Domination”.
Fisting
The insertion of a hand or fist into a partner’s vagina or anus, requiring extensive communication, lubrication, and gradual progression.
Fleshlight (Sleeve)
A sex toy designed to simulate the sensation of penetrative sex.
Flogging
A consensual BDSM activity involving rhythmic striking with a multi-tailed whip or flogger, exploring sensations and power dynamics.
Fly Me to You (FMTY)
Fly Me to You is a service where a provider travels to meet a client, often involving a specific arrangement for travel expenses. It allows clients to enjoy the company of a preferred companion in various locations.
Foot Fetish
A sexual interest characterised by arousal or satisfaction derived from feet.
Foot Worship
Foot worship involves admiration and attention directed towards a partner’s feet.
G
Girlfriend Experience (GFE)
The Girlfriend Experience, or GFE, refers to a service that simulates the warmth and intimacy of a romantic relationship. Providers offer companionship, affection, and a connection akin to that of a girlfriend, focusing on creating a genuine and authentic experience.
Golden Shower
A Golden shower involves consensual erotic play with urine.
H
Hair Fetish
A fetish involving sexual arousal or satisfaction derived from hair.
Happy Ending
A happy ending refers to a conclusion of an erotic massage or sexual service culminating in sexual release.
Humiliation
Humiliation is a BDSM activity involving verbal or psychological degradation within established limits and boundaries.
I
Impact Play
Impact play encompasses various consensual activities involving striking the body for erotic pleasure.
Interrogation
A role play scenario within BDSM involving consensual power dynamics and questioning.
K
Kissing
Kissing involves consensual lip-to-lip contact.
L
Lactating
Lactating refers to the production of milk in mammary glands.
Latex
Latex refers to a material commonly used in fetish attire, emphasising erotic aesthetics and sensory experiences.
Leather
Leather is a material often associated with BDSM attire and practices.
Light Bondage
Light bondage involves consensual restraint using gentle methods.
Light Spanking
Light spanking involves consensual striking of the buttocks with a gentle intensity.
M
Medical Fantasies
Medical fantasies involve consensual role play scenarios with a medical theme.
Missionary
Missionary is a sexual position where partners face each other.
Mistress
A Mistress is an individual who takes on a dominant role in BDSM activities.
Multiple Positions
Exploring various sexual positions consensually to enhance pleasure.
Multiple Shots
Consensual engagement in sexual activities leading to multiple orgasms or climaxes.
Multiple Shots on Goal (MSOG)
A term referring to achieving multiple orgasms or climaxes during sexual activities, ‘On Goal’ refers to ejaculating on a partners body. See “Cum on body”.
Mutual Masturbation
Mutual masturbation involves consensual self-stimulation in the presence of a partner.
Mutual Oral
Mutual oral activities involve consensual reciprocal oral-genital stimulation.
N
Naughty Boyfriend Experience (NBFE)
The Naughty Boyfriend Experience, or NBFE, combines the intimacy of a romantic relationship with a playful and adventurous twist. It involves exploring explicit and more daring activities within the context of companionship.
Needle Play
Needle play involves consensual use of needles for erotic stimulation.
Nipple Clamps
Nipple clamps are devices used to clamp the nipple for stimulation.
Nipple Torture
Activities focused on intense nipple stimulation.
Nurse
A role play scenario involving consensual medical themes, with one partner taking on the role of a nurse.
Nuru
Nuru massage involves full-body contact using a slippery gel or oil.
O
Oral
Consensual oral-genital stimulation.
Overnight Stays (OVN)
Overnight Stays involve extended companionship, typically spanning an entire night. This service allows for a more relaxed and immersive experience, fostering a deeper connection.
P
Pantyhose Fetish
A fetish involving sexual arousal or satisfaction derived from pantyhose.
Penis Pump
A penis pump is a device designed to temporarily increase the size of the penis through vacuum suction.
Porn star Experience (PSE)
The Porn star Experience, or PSE, is a service tailored to emulate the intensity and adventurous aspects of adult film performances. It often includes a variety of explicit activities, catering to those seeking a more explicit and adventurous encounter.
Pregnant
Engaging in consensual sexual activities during pregnancy.
Prostate Massage
Prostate massage involves the stimulation of the prostate gland for sexual pleasure.
Public
Engaging in consensual sexual activities in public spaces, emphasising the importance of privacy, consent, and legal considerations.
Public Exhibitionism
Deriving sexual pleasure from being observed or engaging in sexual acts in public spaces, emphasising consent, discretion, and legal considerations.
R
Rimming
Rimming involves oral-genital stimulation of the anus.
Rope Bondage
Rope bondage involves consensual use of ropes for restraint or decorative purposes.
S
School Girl
A role play scenario involving consensual themes of a schoolgirl.
Scripted Role Play
Engaging in consensual role play scenarios with pre-determined scripts.
Secretary
A role play scenario involving consensual themes of a secretary.
Sensory Deprivation
Sensory deprivation involves limiting one’s sensory input consensually, exploring heightened sensations and trust between partners.
Sex Toys
Objects designed for sexual pleasure and satisfaction.
Shibari
Shibari is a form of Japanese rope bondage, emphasising consensual restraint, communication, and expertise.
Shoe Worship
A fetish involving erotic admiration and attention directed towards a partner’s shoes.
Sissification
Sissification involves consensual role play and activities exploring themes of feminisation.
Sissy
Sissy refers to a consensual role play and exploration of femininity within the BDSM context.
Slave
A consensual role within BDSM involving submission and obedience to a dominant partner.
Slave Training
Consensual activities aimed at instructing and shaping submissive behaviour within BDSM dynamics.
Smoking Fetish
A fetish involving sexual arousal or satisfaction derived from smoking related activities.
Social Companionship (Social)
Social Companionship services focus on providing companions for social events, gatherings, or outings. It is an opportunity to have a charming and engaging partner for public events without explicit adult-oriented activities.
Spanking
Spanking involves consensual striking of the buttocks for erotic pleasure.
Speculum
A medical instrument used for sexual play, typically for vaginal or anal examination.
Sploshing
Sploshing involves incorporating food or messy substances into sexual activities for erotic pleasure.
Squirting
Squirting refers to the release of fluid during sexual activities, often associated with female ejaculation.
Stocking Fetish
A fetish involving sexual arousal or satisfaction derived from stockings.
Submissive (SUB)
A person who consensually embraces a submissive role in BDSM dynamics.
Suspension Bondage
Suspension bondage involves consensual restraint where the body is lifted off the ground.
T
Tantra
Tantra involves consensual practices aimed at spiritual and sexual connection.
Tease and Denial
Tease and denial involves consensual activities focused on prolonged arousal without immediate sexual release.
Tickling
Tickling as a consensual activity involves playful, non-harmful stimulation.
Tie and Tease
Tie and tease involves consensual bondage paired with sensual teasing.
Travel Companion (Travel)
A Travel Companion offers company during trips, ensuring a pleasant and enjoyable travel experience. This service caters to those who desire a companion for vacations, business trips, or other travel adventures.
U
Uniform
Uniform play involves incorporating role play scenarios with specific outfits for erotic pleasure.
V
Vibrator
A vibrator is a sex toy designed for pleasurable stimulation usually in a penis shape with vibrating function.
W
Watersports
See “Golden Shower”.
Wax Play
Wax play involves consensual dripping of hot wax onto the body for erotic pleasure.
Wrestling
Wrestling as a consensual activity involves playful physical interaction.