Sai Jaiden Lillith
Melbourne, Victoria
40s
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Sai Jaiden Lillith
Melbourne, Victoria, 40s
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“Fall in love every day Deeply, carelessly, recklessly Like your heart’s a stolen muscle driven wildly into the sunset.” I am Sai Jaiden Lillith, a practitioner of the erotic arts. An escort, Dominatrix, Shibari specialist, pornographer, educator, event organiser, artist and musician; The Work through the lens of the erotic is my vocation, my passion...
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Sai Jaiden Lillith
“Fall in love every day
Deeply, carelessly, recklessly
Like your heart’s a stolen muscle
driven wildly into the sunset.”
I am Sai Jaiden Lillith, a practitioner of the erotic arts.
An escort, Dominatrix, Shibari specialist, pornographer, educator, event organiser, artist and musician; The Work through the lens of the erotic is my vocation, my passion and my activism.
Since my beginnings in 2016 my journey has led me to the houses of The Kastle (Syd), Temple 22 (Syd) and Fetish House (Mel). Through all of this I have worked diligently to acquire knowledge from leading sex industry professionals and continue to expand and interrogate my own practices and understanding.
One of the few widely recognised non-binary male embodied professional Dominants in the Australian Sex Industry, I hold my spaces with the highest levels of ethical, professional conduct. I have performed and presented workshops at OzKinkFest, Sexpo and many other events, as well as providing professional training and services to peers and initiates in the Sex Industry.
I dance with shadows and flame, between masculine and feminine, beyond reason and dream, in laughter and tears, pleasure and pain, among the sacred and profane.
Love frames all I do
Your wellbeing is my highest priority.
As deep into the shadows we step, I will hold a place of safety that you may unfurl within.
With me, you can explore your darkest dreams while knowing your vulnerability and trust will be honoured.
Sex is Art
Art has always been a core part of my embodiment.
One can use a pen to tick a box; or to draw out the landscapes of dreams, write of worlds unseen, letters that expose our souls, that rend the heart. Flesh is the canvas on which I paint, the page upon which I inscribe the poetry of lust, the medium in which you will be transported.
I cherish connection
I delight in sensuality and soft spaces as much as ruthless sadism,
the uncomplicated coupling as much as multilayered power driven experiences.
All are tools of connection, to ourselves, to each other, to the divine.
Transcendent Lust
The erotic is one of the many paths to the sublime. Submerged in the seas of sensation; rituals of pleasure, incantations of obscenity, ordeals and catharsis, we bare ourselves to transformation and exaltation.
Divergent & Unmasked
One of the deep joys of my Path has been finding containers for my divergences to be containered, honoured and unmasked. The spaces I hold are trauma aware and physical / mental divergence friendly. Drop the masks with me, and allow yourself to just… be.
Knowledge & Power
To intentionally PLAY with power is an act of rebellion, a journey of self discovery. In a world where power is often used non-consensually, to truly KNOW power is to name the demons, and in doing so take your power back, whether in submission or Dominance.
Sex is Resistance
The erotic is a core part of our being, a place of power, pleasure and primality. To deny it is to deny ourselves. In a world which shames, censors and denies the erotic, to embrace and explore it is an act of defiance to those who would keep us imprisoned and powerless.
ALL ARE WELCOME, ALL IS WELCOME
I session with all genders, all ages (18+) and all races and creeds. My only limitation is that those who come do so with respect. I welcome all your expressions and reactions; this is a place where your rage, joys, sorrows, griefs and laughter are welcome.
Please see saijaidenlillith.com for a detailled listing of my passions, desires and proficiencies.
Yes, I offer full service!
My sessions run deep; I give as much as you are willing to take, and take all that you have to give. I offer journeys, unveiling of secrets and desires; a place of non-judgement where shame is only another piece in your erotic puzzle; a safe container to become unshackled, unravelled; a time to revel in obscenity and the profane, a pathway to the sacred and transcendent; an invitation to play in delight and wonder; an opening to yourself.
I am open to all offers, as long as they are communicated respectfully and I will only perform that which will not cause undesired harm and aligns with my own philosophies, proficiencies and practices.
Below is a comprehensive summary of my passions and skillsets – all of which can be experienced in any combination and with any intensity that is true to what you seek.
All sessions can be as “sexual” or “non-sexual” as you require; I conduct extensive pre-session negotiations and all desires are different! BDSM is a beautiful practice which is expansive in the possibilities of non-normative libidinal exploration.
I also offer one on one bespoke training in the techniques of your choice, as well as a Pro Dom/me / Lifestyle domme complete pathway course. Pricing starts at $150/hr.
WHAT IS SHIBARI?
Shibari is the art of Japanese rope bondage, and is one of my core specialisations. The beauty and aesthetics of Shibari are at one with the experience that it creates. Shibari can be many things – deeply erotic, obscene, elevating, sensual, violent and even completely non-sexual. It can feature ground based work, full suspensions and everything in between.
SHIBARI SESSIONS
I can include Shibari in any other session types or experiences, but I also offer pure Shibari sessions for a reduced price ($250/hr). Why? Because I love doing it, and I like to make my offerings as accessible as possible while still being able to make a living from my profession.
