Fin Wilder
Melbourne, Victoria
40s
Females
Trans Males
Trans Females
Disabled Clients
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Fin Wilder
Melbourne, Victoria, 40s
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I’m Fin; your kind, curious and candid companion. With 10 years’ experience in the sex industry – from hot & heavy or gentle & sensual vanilla GFE to deep & dark dungeon Dominance – I’m evolving once again and offering a combination of all my favourite and flavorful frolics. Starting testosterone hormone therapy has flicked...
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Fin Wilder
I’m Fin; your kind, curious and candid companion. With 10 years’ experience in the sex industry – from hot & heavy or gentle & sensual vanilla GFE to deep & dark dungeon Dominance – I’m evolving once again and offering a combination of all my favourite and flavorful frolics.
Starting testosterone hormone therapy has flicked a very fiery switch in me and I am soaking up all the sexiness it’s bringing. I welcome old play partners and new, to explore and share with me, on a very sexy adventure.
My repertoire for play is diverse and devious, I’m a willing explorer, and if you’re shy I can tease out your desires so they may be fulfilled. I love finding new ways to play and pleasure, and each encounter is special and unique.
Being with me is a grounding experience; I bring a depth, security and maturity that will reverberate through you long after we have parted company.
I love to dive deep into intimate conversation that gets to the heart of being human, in all its joyous peculiarities. I am comfortable with awkwardness and vulnerability, I’m unconventional and whimsical in where my mind likes to travel, and I welcome your quirks as I do my own. I’ve been told I’m witty and fun too! Kindness I value above all else.
I don’t have an exhaustive service list, per se, so I invite you to be upfront about what you’re seeking when enquiring about my TFE experiences (them-friend experience; not girlfriend, not boyfriend). As a guide I offer gentle TFE and kinky TFE, with more on that below…
I can also offer bespoke BDSM scenes with a more classic D/s vibe – please enquire.
Gentle TFE (them-friend experience):
I care about connection; and I have longed to belong. I have experienced periods of skin hunger and drought, and I know how nourishing quality skin time can be. My Gentle TFE values our bodies cues of readiness; dropping into a deep, soulful merging of beings. Cuddles, breath, playful touch and meaningful conversation allow for an unusual expansiveness to open our hearts. Sexual intimacy in all its joyful expression completes this package to soothe your heart and soul.
Kinky TFE:
Switchy playtime or mouth watering Dominance, I will leave you in no doubt that you are desired as we bring out the toys and unleash our darker desires. As a trained kink provider this is a special opportunity to play in the boudoir with a very skilled and wicked player. My style is dynamic and responds to the energetic interplay between us. I am an expert in drawing out your desires, and organising them into a container where we can both feel free and safe to express ourselves in with raw passion. I will always dominate you first, to establish expectations and assess the level to which I will submit to you. All you need is and eager and respectful attitude for me to guide you into your Dominance. Once a rapport is established we can role play specific fantasies or take it in turns exploring our devilish desires in playful games of discovery.
Interactive Erotic Learning:
This is a more structured space where we use play to learn, specifically about whatever aspect of your sexuality you’d like to explore. Sessions typically begin with a check in, and a guided body scan. We then have a chat about what you want to achieve and explore some play ideas to support you in that. Afterwards we debrief and I might suggest some practices for you to play with at home.
These sessions do not look like a typical sex work booking; they can be very sexy, and very playful, and they can be challenging depending on your experience. It’s possible that clothes will come off, and it’s possible they won’t, we agree to the level that you are comfortable with what will happen in a session. I have worked with many people to help them move through shame, and find more ease and joy in their bodies and relationships with others and I adore holding this space for people. You may also be quite happy with your sex life, but feel like there is more available and want to learn. I can assure you there is more, and you can learn!
I have top surgery booked for July (just 4 months away!), so there is limited time to indulge with me (whatever your flavour!) before I take much of the remainder of 2025 off to rest and recuperate.
Sensual TFE (them-friend experience):
I care about my connections and I have longed to belong. I have experienced periods of skin hunger and drought, and I know how nourishing quality skin time can be.
Gentle TFE, with me, values our bodies cues of readiness; dropping into a deep, soulful merging of beings.
Cuddles, breath, playful touch and meaningful conversation allow for an unusual expansiveness to open our hearts. Sexual intimacy in all its joyful expression completes this package to soothe your heart and soul.
Kinky TFE:
Switchy playtime or mouth watering Dominance, I will leave you in no doubt that you are desired as we bring out the toys and unleash our darker desires.
As a trained kink provider this is a special opportunity to play in the boudoir with a very skilled and wicked player. My style is dynamic and responds to the energetic interplay between us. I am an expert in drawing out your desires, and organising them into a container where we can both feel free and safe to express ourselves in with raw passion.
Erotic Expansion:
This is a more structured space where we use play to learn, specifically about whatever aspect of your sexuality you’d like to explore.
These sessions do not look like a typical sex work booking; they can be very sexy, and very playful, and they can be challenging depending on your experience.
Pure BDSM:
I can also offer bespoke BDSM scenes with classic D/s vibes – I am versatile player; trained in a wide range of activities and versed in many play dynamics.
