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Sai Jaiden Lillith

Verified - 03/06/2025
Melbourne, Victoria, Australia 40s

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"Fall in love every day Deeply, carelessly, recklessly Like your heart’s a stolen muscle driven wildly into the sunset." I am Sai Jaiden Lillith, a practitioner of the erotic arts. An escort, Dominatrix, Shibari specialist, pornographer, educator, event organiser, artist and musician; The Work through the lens of the erotic is my vocation, my passion…

"Fall in love every day
Deeply, carelessly, recklessly
Like your heart’s a stolen muscle
driven wildly into the sunset."

I am Sai Jaiden Lillith, a practitioner of the erotic arts.

An escort, Dominatrix, Shibari specialist, pornographer, educator, event organiser, artist and musician; The Work through the lens of the erotic is my vocation, my passion and my activism.

Since my beginnings in 2016 my journey has led me to the houses of The Kastle (Syd), Temple 22 (Syd) and Fetish House (Mel). Through all of this I have worked diligently to acquire knowledge from leading sex industry professionals and continue to expand and interrogate my own practices and understanding.

One of the few widely recognised non-binary male embodied professional Dominants in the Australian Sex Industry, I hold my spaces with the highest levels of ethical, professional conduct. I have performed and presented workshops at OzKinkFest, Sexpo and many other events, as well as providing professional training and services to peers and initiates in the Sex Industry.

​I dance with shadows and flame, between masculine and feminine, beyond reason and dream, in laughter and tears, pleasure and pain, among the sacred and profane.

Love frames all I do

Your wellbeing is my highest priority.
As deep into the shadows we step, I will hold a place of safety that you may unfurl within.
With me, you can explore your darkest dreams while knowing your vulnerability and trust will be honoured.

Sex is Art

Art has always been a core part of my embodiment.
One can use a pen to tick a box; or to draw out the landscapes of dreams, write of worlds unseen, letters that expose our souls, that rend the heart. Flesh is the canvas on which I paint, the page upon which I inscribe the poetry of lust, the medium in which you will be transported.

I cherish connection

I delight in sensuality and soft spaces as much as ruthless sadism,
the uncomplicated coupling as much as multilayered power driven experiences.
All are tools of connection, to ourselves, to each other, to the divine.

Transcendent Lust

The erotic is one of the many paths to the sublime. Submerged in the seas of sensation; rituals of pleasure, incantations of obscenity, ordeals and catharsis, we bare ourselves to transformation and exaltation.

Divergent & Unmasked

One of the deep joys of my Path has been finding containers for my divergences to be containered, honoured and unmasked. The spaces I hold are trauma aware and physical / mental divergence friendly. Drop the masks with me, and allow yourself to just… be.

Knowledge & Power

To intentionally PLAY with power is an act of rebellion, a journey of self discovery. In a world where power is often used non-consensually, to truly KNOW power is to name the demons, and in doing so take your power back, whether in submission or Dominance.

Sex is Resistance

The erotic is a core part of our being, a place of power, pleasure and primality. To deny it is to deny ourselves. In a world which shames, censors and denies the erotic, to embrace and explore it is an act of defiance to those who would keep us imprisoned and powerless.


ALL ARE WELCOME, ALL IS WELCOME

I session with all genders, all ages (18+) and all races and creeds. My only limitation is that those who come do so with respect. I welcome all your expressions and reactions; this is a place where your rage, joys, sorrows, griefs and laughter are welcome.

Age:
40s
Gender:
NonBinary
Pronouns:
They/them/theirs
Caters for:
All
Ethnicity:
Asian
Body Type:
Athletic
Height:
171 cm
Dress Size:
12
Endowment:
13 cm
Circumcised:
No
Hair colour:
Black
Hair length:
Long
Eye colour:
Black
Shoe size:
8 US
Personal Grooming:
Hairless
Tattoos:
Yes
Piercings (excl. ears):
No
Vaccinated:
Covid-19
Monkeypox
Personality:
Authentic
Compassionate
Creative
Playful
Sai Jaiden Lillith

Sai Jaiden Lillith

Verified - 03/06/2025
Melbourne, Victoria, Australia, 40s

Follow Me

Get Acquainted with me:
"Fall in love every day Deeply, carelessly, recklessly Like your heart’s a stolen muscle driven wildly into the sunset." I am Sai Jaiden Lillith, a practitioner of the erotic arts. An escort, Dominatrix, Shibari specialist, pornographer, educator, event organiser, artist and musician; The Work through the lens of the erotic is my vocation, my passion…

"Fall in love every day
Deeply, carelessly, recklessly
Like your heart’s a stolen muscle
driven wildly into the sunset."

I am Sai Jaiden Lillith, a practitioner of the erotic arts.

An escort, Dominatrix, Shibari specialist, pornographer, educator, event organiser, artist and musician; The Work through the lens of the erotic is my vocation, my passion and my activism.

Since my beginnings in 2016 my journey has led me to the houses of The Kastle (Syd), Temple 22 (Syd) and Fetish House (Mel). Through all of this I have worked diligently to acquire knowledge from leading sex industry professionals and continue to expand and interrogate my own practices and understanding.

One of the few widely recognised non-binary male embodied professional Dominants in the Australian Sex Industry, I hold my spaces with the highest levels of ethical, professional conduct. I have performed and presented workshops at OzKinkFest, Sexpo and many other events, as well as providing professional training and services to peers and initiates in the Sex Industry.

​I dance with shadows and flame, between masculine and feminine, beyond reason and dream, in laughter and tears, pleasure and pain, among the sacred and profane.

Love frames all I do

Your wellbeing is my highest priority.
As deep into the shadows we step, I will hold a place of safety that you may unfurl within.
With me, you can explore your darkest dreams while knowing your vulnerability and trust will be honoured.

Sex is Art

Art has always been a core part of my embodiment.
One can use a pen to tick a box; or to draw out the landscapes of dreams, write of worlds unseen, letters that expose our souls, that rend the heart. Flesh is the canvas on which I paint, the page upon which I inscribe the poetry of lust, the medium in which you will be transported.

I cherish connection

I delight in sensuality and soft spaces as much as ruthless sadism,
the uncomplicated coupling as much as multilayered power driven experiences.
All are tools of connection, to ourselves, to each other, to the divine.

Transcendent Lust

The erotic is one of the many paths to the sublime. Submerged in the seas of sensation; rituals of pleasure, incantations of obscenity, ordeals and catharsis, we bare ourselves to transformation and exaltation.

Divergent & Unmasked

One of the deep joys of my Path has been finding containers for my divergences to be containered, honoured and unmasked. The spaces I hold are trauma aware and physical / mental divergence friendly. Drop the masks with me, and allow yourself to just… be.

Knowledge & Power

To intentionally PLAY with power is an act of rebellion, a journey of self discovery. In a world where power is often used non-consensually, to truly KNOW power is to name the demons, and in doing so take your power back, whether in submission or Dominance.

Sex is Resistance

The erotic is a core part of our being, a place of power, pleasure and primality. To deny it is to deny ourselves. In a world which shames, censors and denies the erotic, to embrace and explore it is an act of defiance to those who would keep us imprisoned and powerless.


ALL ARE WELCOME, ALL IS WELCOME

I session with all genders, all ages (18+) and all races and creeds. My only limitation is that those who come do so with respect. I welcome all your expressions and reactions; this is a place where your rage, joys, sorrows, griefs and laughter are welcome.

Features

Age:
40s
Gender:
NonBinary
Pronouns:
They/them/theirs
Caters for:
All
Ethnicity:
Asian
Body Type:
Athletic
Height:
171 cm
Dress Size:
12
Endowment:
13 cm
Circumcised:
No
Hair colour:
Black
Hair length:
Long
Eye colour:
Black
Shoe size:
8 US
Personal Grooming:
Hairless
Tattoos:
Yes
Piercings (excl. ears):
No
Vaccinated:
Covid-19
Monkeypox
Personality:
Authentic
Compassionate
Creative
Playful
Sai Jaiden Lillith
Sai Jaiden Lillith

Rates & Services

BDSM

BDSM

Time Price
1 Hour
$400 AUD
Time Price
1 Hour
$400 AUD
Due to local legislation, service details cannot be displayed. Please contact the advertiser directly.
Included Services (70)
Anal play - on you Anal sex BDSM Ball busting Ball licking & sucking Bare back blow job Blindfold Body worship Bondage Butt plug Cock and ball torture (CBT) Cock ring Corporal punishment Covered blow job DATY (Dining at the Y - Oral) Dildo Dirty talk Discipline Doggy Dominant (DOM) Dominatrix Double penetration Edging Electro play Facesitting Fingering Fisting Foot fetish Foot worship French kissing Full service Golden shower / Watersports Hair fetish Humiliation Impact play Kissing Leather Light anal play (no insertion) - on you Light fingering Light hair pulling Light spanking Medical fantasies Missionary Mistress Multiple positions Nipple clamps Nipple play Nipple torture Oral on me Pantyhose fetish Pegging / Strap on - on you Photo content Photography Prostate massage Rimming - on me Roleplay Scripted roleplay Sensory deprivation Sex toys Shibari Sissy Slave Slave training Spanking Spanking on you Speculum Suspension bondage Tickling Vibrator Wax play
PSE

Porn Star Experience

Time Price
1 Hour
$400 AUD
Time Price
1 Hour
$400 AUD
Due to local legislation, service details cannot be displayed. Please contact the advertiser directly.
Included Services (53)
69 Anal Pegging / Strap on - on me Anal Pegging / Strap on - on you Anal play - on you Anal sex BJ Ball licking & sucking Bare back blow job Bisexual play Butt plug Cock ring Covered blow job Cuddling Cum in mouth Cum on Body (COB) Cum on face (COF) DATY (Dining at the Y - Oral) Deep french kissing Deep throat Dildo Dirty talk Doggy Double penetration Erotic massage - No full service Facesitting Filming Fingering Fire and ice BJ Fisting French kissing Full service Hand job Kissing Light anal play (no insertion) - on me Light anal play (no insertion) - on you Light fingering Missionary Multiple positions Multiple shots Mutual oral Nipple clamps Nipple play Oral on me Pegging / Strap on - on me Pegging / Strap on - on you Photo content Photography Prostate massage Rimming - on me Roleplay Sex toys Spanish Vibrator
Couples

Couples Experience

Time Price
1 Hour
$700 AUD
Time Price
1 Hour
$700 AUD
Due to local legislation, service details cannot be displayed. Please contact the advertiser directly.
Included Services (94)
69 Anal Pegging / Strap on - on you Anal play - on you Anal sex BDSM BJ Ball busting Ball licking & sucking Bare back blow job Bisexual play Blindfold Body slide Body worship Bondage Butt plug Cock and ball torture (CBT) Cock ring Corporal punishment Costumes Covered blow job Cuddling Cum in mouth Cum on Body (COB) Cum on face (COF) DATY (Dining at the Y - Oral) Deep french kissing Deep throat Dildo Dirty talk Discipline Doggy Dominant (DOM) Dominatrix Double penetration Edging Electro play Erotic massage - No full service Exhibitionism Facesitting Female female male Filming Fingering Fire and ice BJ Fisting Foot fetish Foot worship French kissing Full service Golden shower / Watersports Hair fetish Hand job Humiliation Impact play Kissing Latex Leather Light anal play (no insertion) - on me Light anal play (no insertion) - on you Light fingering Light hair pulling Light spanking Male male female Medical fantasies Missionary Mistress Multiple positions Multiple shots Mutual oral Nipple clamps Nipple play Nipple torture Oral on me Pegging / Strap on - on you Photo content Photography Prostate massage Rimming - on me Roleplay Scripted roleplay Sensory deprivation Sex toys Shibari Sissy Slave Slave training Spanish Spanking Spanking on you Speculum Suspension bondage Tickling Vibrator Wax play Yoni Massage

Pricing

Training / Education / Consultation – $150/hr
Shibari only – $250/hr
All other 1:1 sessions – $400/hr
Couples bookings – $700/hr

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