I’m Tyler Banks, a 35-year-old English male escort, erotic massage therapist, and award-winning Dominant. In 2025, I was honoured to receive Best Male BDSM Provider at the Australian Adult Industry Awards.
My work is deeply centred around erotic Nuru massage, conscious BDSM experiences, and intimate co-regulation sessions designed for women seeking more than surface-level connection.
Over the years, I developed a profound interest in the emotional and nervous system impacts of CPTSD, domestic violence, sexual abuse, and narcissistic abuse through my own lived experience supporting my former wife during her years working in the adult industry. I spent countless hours simply listening to women’s stories — hearing not only what happened to them, but how those experiences continued living inside their bodies long after they escaped unsafe relationships.
Because trauma does not simply disappear once someone leaves.
It lingers in the nervous system. In touch. In intimacy. In trust. In the quiet fear that people — especially men — are not safe.
I believe healing often requires more than conversation alone. Safe intimacy, grounded presence, conscious touch, and emotional safety can become powerful tools for helping the nervous system relearn what safety feels like again.
My sessions are designed to create an environment where women can fully exhale.
Whether through slow sensual touch, nurturing cuddle and co-regulation experiences, erotic massage, or consensual power exchange and BDSM, I offer deeply present experiences built on trust, communication, nervous system awareness, and emotional safety.
Conscious kink and intentional intimacy can become transformative spaces for self-discovery, healing, surrender, empowerment, and reconnecting with your body without shame or fear.
Many of us unconsciously repeat the relationship patterns we learned in childhood — through our parents, early attachments, and formative romantic experiences. These blueprints quietly shape who we are drawn to, what feels familiar, and why we sometimes continue choosing people who hurt us.
Part of my work is helping women recognise those patterns, reconnect with their intuition, and rediscover what healthy masculine presence can actually feel like.
Not control. Not manipulation. Not performance.
But safety. Presence. Strength. Patience. Connection.
For some women, our time together is erotic. For others, therapeutic. For many, it becomes both.
My approach is slow, intentional, emotionally attuned, and entirely tailored to the woman in front of me.
Services include: • Erotic Nuru Massage
• BDSM & Dominance Sessions
• Cuddle & Co-Regulation Sessions
• Sensual Companion Experiences
• Nervous System Safe Intimacy
• Aftercare-Focused BDSM
• Emotional Connection & Intimacy Coaching
If you are seeking an experience built on genuine presence, emotional intelligence, sensuality, safety, and depth, I would love to hear from you.