“Fall in love every day
\nDeeply, carelessly, recklessly
\nLike your heart\u2019s a stolen muscle
\ndriven wildly into the sunset.”<\/p>\n
I am Sai Jaiden Lillith, a practitioner of the erotic arts.<\/p>\n
An escort, Dominatrix, Shibari specialist, pornographer, educator, event organiser, artist and musician; The Work through the lens of the erotic is my vocation, my passion and my activism.<\/p>\n
Since my beginnings in 2016 my journey has led me to the houses of The Kastle (Syd), Temple 22 (Syd) and Fetish House (Mel). Through all of this I have worked diligently to acquire knowledge from leading sex industry professionals and continue to expand and interrogate my own practices and understanding.<\/p>\n
One of the few widely recognised non-binary male embodied professional Dominants in the Australian Sex Industry, I hold my spaces with the highest levels of ethical, professional conduct. I have performed and presented workshops at OzKinkFest, Sexpo and many other events, as well as providing professional training and services to peers and initiates in the Sex Industry.<\/p>\n
\u200bI dance with shadows and flame, between masculine and feminine, beyond reason and dream, in laughter and tears, pleasure and pain, among the sacred and profane.<\/p>\n
Love frames all I do<\/p>\n
Your wellbeing is my highest priority.
\nAs deep into the shadows we step, I will hold a place of safety that you may unfurl within.
\nWith me, you can explore your darkest dreams while knowing your vulnerability and trust will be honoured.<\/p>\n
Sex is Art<\/p>\n
Art has always been a core part of my embodiment.
\nOne can use a pen to tick a box; or to draw out the landscapes of dreams, write of worlds unseen, letters that expose our souls, that rend the heart. Flesh is the canvas on which I paint, the page upon which I inscribe the poetry of lust, the medium in which you will be transported.<\/p>\n
I cherish connection<\/p>\n
I delight in sensuality and soft spaces as much as ruthless sadism,
\nthe uncomplicated coupling as much as multilayered power driven experiences.
\nAll are tools of connection, to ourselves, to each other, to the divine.<\/p>\n
Transcendent Lust<\/p>\n
The erotic is one of the many paths to the sublime. Submerged in the seas of sensation; rituals of pleasure, incantations of obscenity, ordeals and catharsis, we bare ourselves to transformation and exaltation.<\/p>\n
Divergent & Unmasked<\/p>\n
One of the deep joys of my Path has been finding containers for my divergences to be containered, honoured and unmasked. The spaces I hold are trauma aware and physical \/ mental divergence friendly. Drop the masks with me, and allow yourself to just\u2026 be.<\/p>\n
Knowledge & Power<\/p>\n
To intentionally PLAY with power is an act of rebellion, a journey of self discovery. In a world where power is often used non-consensually, to truly KNOW power is to name the demons, and in doing so take your power back, whether in submission or Dominance.<\/p>\n
Sex is Resistance<\/p>\n
The erotic is a core part of our being, a place of power, pleasure and primality. To deny it is to deny ourselves. In a world which shames, censors and denies the erotic, to embrace and explore it is an act of defiance to those who would keep us imprisoned and powerless.<\/p>\n
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\nALL ARE WELCOME, ALL IS WELCOME<\/p>\n
I session with all genders, all ages (18+) and all races and creeds. My only limitation is that those who come do so with respect. I welcome all your expressions and reactions; this is a place where your rage, joys, sorrows, griefs and laughter are welcome.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"template":"","audience":[244],"body-type":[78],"bust":[],"bust-size":[],"chest-size":[],"dress-size":[116],"ethnicity":[102],"experience":[],"eye-colour":[58],"gender":[258],"hair-colour":[94],"hair-length":[196],"interests":[],"personal-grooming":[211],"personality":[256,16,18,254],"preferred-contact":[455],"pronoun":[122],"shoe-size-type":[218],"smoker":[],"suit-size":[],"vaccianted":[126,127],"wishlist-category":[],"class_list":["post-26037","advertiser","type-advertiser","status-publish","hentry","audience-all","body-type-athletic","dress-size-116","ethnicity-asian","eye-colour-black","gender-nonbinary","hair-colour-black","hair-length-long","personal-grooming-hairless","personality-authentic","personality-compassionate","personality-creative","personality-playful","preferred-contact-phone","pronoun-they-them-theirs","shoe-size-type-us","vaccianted-covid-19","vaccianted-monkeypox"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n